What does it mean to be in control of your own life?
In other words, this is the person who asks: “Do I truly want this?” “Is this the only way?” instead of just going along with the flow.
This doesn’t mean rejecting society or breaking rules; it simply means acting from one’s own thinking, stepping beyond the frame set by others, and choosing one’s own path.
And the most important part:
This is not limited to special or extraordinary people. Anyone who becomes aware can become the true agent of their own decisions.
In short: To be a system-independent actor is to be able to say, “I am in control of my own life.”