What does it mean to be in control of your own life?
In other words, this is the person who asks:
“Do I truly want this?”
“Is this the only way?”
instead of just going along with the flow.
This doesn’t mean rejecting society or breaking rules;
it simply means acting from one’s own thinking, stepping beyond the frame set by others, and choosing one’s own path.
And the most important part:
This is not limited to special or extraordinary people.
Anyone who becomes aware
can become the true agent of their own decisions.
In short:
To be a system-independent actor is to be able to say,
“I am in control of my own life.”